Anshu Tomar

Expectations has a very deep meaning in itself. Some of us can understand it and some of us can't. I'm sure many of us have problem with this and the problem is expecting something from someone. What is expectations?  Well, everyone has different answers in their own way. But according to me it's a requirement and you want that requirement to fulfill by someone or the person you are expecting from. And ya! Expectations are highly emotional and imaginary feelings. Do you think expectations are good? Like expecting something from someone is it good or bad?  I think it is both it's good when you only expects little and it's become opposite when you over expect. Over expectations can break you emotionally as well as create negativity around you as which is over can never be good for anyone.  As you know our mind is full of imaginations and that imaginations leads to expectations. We imagine something from a person and if that person can't fulfill it you just...

Choices are the one which plays an important part in our lives. Choices can make you happy and at the same time it can be a reason for your downfall. I am not saying that you should not make choices. Everyone should have plan A and plan B. But the situation becomes more difficult when you have to choose among these choices. It makes you confused to choose a choice and that's becomes the reason for low confidence. For example - during exam you stuck in a question and you know the answer but at the same time you have an another answer too for the same question and it makes you confused and you loose your confidence. Now, just go back your low confidence is because of your confusion,and your confusion is because of your choices. Your choices is not the reason for your downfall the reason is you can't choose among those Choices Just choose one and let be free from it. If you are free your mind will be free and it automatically results in a good decision cause you are confident ...

I am sure many people finds it difficult that how to control our mind and even our heart... First, I would like to know it what's control or controlling? Obviously your answer is to maintain or to hold something. But first think did it really works when you trying to control something? Is it have a positive impact? Yes it has and it has to be! When we are experiencing something in our lives we just think control yourself! What does it mean? Like really who you are to control yourself? According to me if you have to control yourself you should control your mind not your heart because when you can't able to control anything that means your mind is dominant on you. There is a difference between controlled by mind and controlled by heart. In the case of mind you always have a thought or a curiosity of 'controlling yourself'! Cause your mind telling you to do so it's have a dominance on you. But where there is a heart you don't have to worry about 'contr...

Whenever the word silence comes to our mind many of us think that it's simply means be quiet or not to respond. Sorta it is Correct but my topic is not about this. Today I want you to understand that how a silence can be a love. Have you ever been in love with somebody? ohh of course why you should n't be ?but have you ever taste that silence of yours when you get hurt and when he or she didn't make a mark that what you had expected? If u then you are on a right track what I means to say that not to be quite but possess a silence when you get hurt from your love be silence at that point of time when you want to explain something to him or her. Let your love understands your silence(your feelings) if he understands and come to you then probably he or she is truly loves you. If he don't then it's opposite. In a love you need to understand each otherothers' silence even without saying a word you probably fall in love with someone cause you are not attracted by ...